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I love to prove you wrong

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I hope when you die you get to see your stats like how many times you laughed or told a lie or kissed or how many people loved you and how many people hated you and what you meant to people

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When someone dies I hate it to my core when people respond with “I’m sorry.”

I understand you feel bad because someone died. I get that you want to say something to convey that you feel bad for the loss of that person, but you didn’t kill them. It’s not your fault for their death. Why are you sorry? You’re sorry because I lost someone? 

Maybe it was the fact that my mother died when I was only 10 and that the only thing anyone could seem to muster is an I’m sorry or worse I’m sorry for your loss. It’s unimaginative and feels so insincere. I always feel like what people are sorry about is the awkwardness death brings to a situation. No one really knows what to say or how to handle themselves. 

Just don’t say they “passed away”. Because if they’re driving by waving to me that’s one thing but dead is a whole other thing all together. Euphemisms suck. 

Filed under personal rant dead people sorry and shit euphemism

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illicitbehaviour:

sylviaplth:

the fact that kids feel physically ill and have mental breakdowns at the very idea of going to school should be a clue to some people that maybe something isn’t fucking right.

ugh yes.

Another reason I graduated early was because I just couldn’t keep going. My depression had skyrocketed to an all time high and my anxiety was so bad that people thought I was narcoleptic from passing out. 

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